By “quitting”, I don’t mean giving up on the theories or practice of the Artist Dates. I mean that I am not going to continue working through each chapter and doing the morning pages.
I think this is a GREAT book. I have already recommended it to several people because this book really changed the way I see myself and changed what I’m doing with my life. I had a constant negative monologue playing in my head that I never heard until I started doing the morning pages, and I rarely did anything that I enjoy until I started going on Artist Dates.
However, I’ve gotten bogged down in the details of the book and the exercises. Now, it’s like there’s a section of my brain devoted to The Artist’s Way of thinking. I no longer need the book to help me do it. I even had to get a tiny calendar for my purse because I realized I needed to schedule my life around the activities I enjoy, rather than telling myself I’m “too busy” to enjoy life.
My therapist talked about when people “proficiency” college classes, meaning they take a test and get credit for the class without ever having taken the class. I did this in college in the form of CLEP tests, which enabled me to graduate from college in two and a half years while saving thousands of dollars. My therapist suggested perhaps I have reached a level of proficiency with The Artist’s Way. It’s hard for me to believe that, but I’m going to go with it and see where it takes me.
I still recommend this book to everyone. The Artist’s Way completely changed my life for the better. I find that I am overall happier because of the things that I have learned from the book. I told my therapist that I wished she had been more forceful in suggesting the book to me because I realized that I could have been a lot happier, a lot earlier, had I started this book when she first suggested it to me.