Jul 14

Ever since I became friends with Momo I’ve been thinking about going to church. He is a very spiritual person, which I find extremely attractive. Momo has encouraged me to go to church, although not in an annoying or preachy way. I’ve also wanted to go as one of my 101 in 1001 goals. As a child, my mother took my brother and I to church all the time, and I think that this was such an important decision. Going to church so much when I was younger has completely made me the person that I am today. However, the church that we went to was non-denominational, which leaves me now trying to figure out what type of church I should attend.

First, let me tell you my criteria for a church that I could enjoy (in order of importance):

1. Beautiful Architecture
2. Tolerant, Non-Preachy, People Who Don’t Seem Like Child Molesters
3. Singing Should Be Completely Optional
4. Pastors Should Not Yell Or Resemble Televangelists
5. Collection Of Money Should Be Non-Obvious and Optional
6. Tolerable Parking Conditions
7. Should Offer A Service In Spanish
8. Services Should Not Be Too Interactive
9. Not Required To Jump Through Hoops To Become A Church Member

(Can you see why I’ve been attending Buddhist services? Lol.)

Here are the options I’m considering (in alphabetical order):


First United Methodist Church of Miami
400 Biscayne Boulevard
Miami, FL 33132
Services: Sunday 10:55 a.m.


Plymouth Congregational Church, Universal Church of Christ
3400 Devon Road
Coconut Grove, FL 33133
Services: Sunday 10:00 a.m.


St. Hugh Catholic Church
3460 Royal Road
Coconut Grove, FL 33133
Services: Sunday 9:00 a.m.

I don’t know how well any of these churches meet my above criteria, but I’m willing to find out, and I’m willing to consider other options.

Feb 14

The Sun-Sentinel features this article (spotted via Critical Miami), in which the author of the Sun-Sentinel article apparently ”doesn’t get” why evolution is taught in schools but “intelligent design” is not. 

The author does have some good points.  In some ways, a belief in evolution requires its own dogma.  Many people who believe in evolution can be as overzealous as religious fanatics.  She does have a point that evolution (which apparently may be renamed to “biological changes over time”) is taught as if it is the absolute truth, and “intelligent design” (religion) is not taught at all.  However, the author seems to ignore that one of the fundamental principles upon which this country was founded was the idea that religion and government should not be commingled, and separation of church and state is exactly why we don’t teach “intelligent design” in schools.

Why must it be called “intelligent design”?  My hunch is that it is an attempt to make religion sound more like science, and therefore to make it more acceptable to teach in schools.  I drive by the Church of Christ, Scientist every day on my way to work and wonder if members of this congregation spearheaded the “intelligent design” movement.  And here’s a personal anecdote (and the “blawg” part), which proves my point that “intelligent design” = unabashed religion.  One day I’m picking a jury in a criminal case.  The judge has all members of the jury panel fill out questionnaires that ask about the basic details of their lives including where they live, what their careers are, their hobbies, etc.  I misread one man’s answers due to handwriting that only leads me to believe that he should have become a doctor.  Rather than reading “graphic design” as his career, I misread his career as “organic design”.  I was quite intrigued by this and decided to question him further.  When I asked him what he does as part of his career in “organic design”, he corrected me and told me that he does graphic design.  Then he followed up with, “Organic design?  Isn’t that God?”  The entire jury panel errupted in laughter.  Case closed.

I’m impressed to think that there are parents out there who care about what their kids are doing at school.  It’s unfortunate that the author has to “de-program” her kids as a result of what is being taught, but that’s exactly why people can feel free to send their kids to private schools or to home school their children.  When parents don’t like what schools are teaching and they want to teach their own theories, that’s fine.  But the fact that they choose not to home school or send their kids to private school, doesn’t mean that the rest of us should have to teach their theories in school or to water down our curriculum with things that don’t belong there, such as religion. 

Now if you want to be technical the First Amendment of the Bill of Rights doesn’t say that religion has to be separated from school or even that “church” has to be separated from “state”:

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof….”

Through various court interpretations, the First Amendment to the Bill of Rights has come to mean that religion cannot be forced upon students in public schools.  One of my middle school English teachers had the right outlook on this and had a poster that said, “As long as there are tests, there will be prayer in schools.”  Although religion is not taught in schools, students will continue to believe in it and even practice it, right in the classroom. 

Boo on the Sun-Sentinel for posting an article that seems to ignore our Constitution and even seems to suggest that we should allow the erosion of our Constitutional rights.  Ok, maybe I’m being over dramatic, but you know, you give them an inch, they take the whole yard, etc.  Double boo for publishing authors who seem clueless about our rights.  (That’s what blogs are for: where clueless authors can post whatever they want.  Lol.)  Yay, I guess, to the Sun-Sentinel for pushing freedom of speech and freedom of the press?  And double yay for a parent who cares what her kids are doing in school.

And now I’m really off on a tangent, but I do want to say that my favorite battle between evolution and religion is among the car fish.  First of all, whoever came up with the Darwin car fish in response to the Christian car fish must have been a genius.  (Check out this article for neat ideas other people had for car fish.)  Second, I want to address the Christian fanatics who in response to the Darwin fish now carry on their cars a large “Truth fish” eating the smaller Darwin fish.

Doesn’t this car emblem reflect a dogmatic lack of thought?  Doesn’t this emblem reflect a belief at least in natural selection, the mechanism of evolution?  If you put this fish on your car, you are admitting that at least part of the theory of evolution is correct in that the bigger, stronger, more well-adapted organisms eat the weaker, smaller, less-adapted organisms.  By putting this fish on your car, didn’t you mean to show that evolution is not true?  Again, this is where a dogmatic lack of thought can lead you.  You could be one of those morons, who goes around blindly sticking fish emblems on your car, planning to show the world that evolution doesn’t happen and that Christianity AKA “intelligent design” AKA “Truth” is the winner.  Too bad that you accidentally confirmed a belief in part of the very theory you were intending to disprove.  And what were you thinking anyway when you thought that you were going to disprove a theory when you stuck a plastic fish to your car?  But I digress….

Oct 25

Altar by Juha Sompinmäki
Photo © Juha Sompinmäki

I attended an introductory Buddhist meditation class today at the Drolma Center.  I went to this class because I want to become more involved in the spiritual aspects of life.  As a side note, the topics of the meditation were love and anger, which delighted Manchester when I told him because for a while he’s been saying he thinks I need help with anger management.  The people I met were great and made me feel very comfortable at the center, which was a new environment for me. 

The teacher spoke about the idea that we are supposed to love all living things, yet it’s our loved ones, supposedly whom we love the most, who most irritate us.  Our teacher spoke of just focusing on loving those closest to you and letting go of anger and attachment surrounding them.  I thought the talk was very applicable to what’s happening in my life right now, and I came away with some ideas how to go about letting go of my anger regarding Manchester.  Our teacher suggested starting small, and working on things we might realistically be able to change.  After all, it’s unrealistic to go around saying we love all beings when we can’t get along with those closest to us.  I thought the class was great, and I left feeling refreshed.  I hope to attend many more meditations in the future.

Oct 16

Dream: My mother, brother, and I were riding on some type of train to do a Buddhist missionary trip.  We had rented a bunch of Buddhist paraphernalia in order to set up an altar at our destination.  While on the train, we met up with a guy who was from the same town as my parents.  He joined our group as well, but I had a feeling that he was a criminal and possibly a drug dealer.  Later I realized that he was trying to get us to smuggle drugs in our luggage for him.  At one point we had to pack up everything and get onto another train.  We left the Buddhist items behind because we had rented them.  The owner from whom we rented indicated that they couldn’t be bothered to pick up the belongings, so my mother said perhaps I should take some of the items, but I decided that it would be a better deed to leave them in the hopes that some person would find them and find a better way of living.  As we were packing our belongings onto the train I was frustrated and worried.  The workers were making me declare each item that was in my luggage and enter it into some kind of computer attached to an x-ray machine.  The process was difficult, and I was frustrated.  I was also concerned that perhaps the man from my parents’ hometown would have put drugs in my luggage and I would get blamed.  Eventually, I got on the train and my mother made my brother and I live in the same car.  It was a huge room with glass doors that would face the ocean for most of the trip.  I found the room to be aesthetically displeasing, but I realized that there was nothing I could do about it.

Analysis: I’m not really sure what this dream means.  I think the x-ray machine must represent something about transparency and true motives.  Perhaps the train car I was living in represents something I’ve always believed about aesthetics.  I generally am against things like hair dyeing, heavy makeup, fashion, etc.  I once wanted to become a home decorator or interior designer, but I realized these careers focus on materialistic desires and highlight things that are ultimately unimportant.  I myself have always had concerns about the aesthetics of my living environment, but I’ve come to realize that outside of the basic comfort needs that a person has, a particular style or particular items should not be necessary.  I’m really not sure what the hidden drugs in this dream mean.

Oct 11

I have decided that I will attend my first Buddhist introductory meditation class on November 1st and hopefully some other Buddhist gatherings on the dates thereafter.  Since I was in high school I have thought of practicing Buddhism.  We went on a retreat that included meditation, yoga, and philosophical discussions, as part of a class I took called Theory of Knowledge.  In college I didn’t have the transportation to travel to any Buddhist center.  Since that time I was inspired by hearing His Holiness The Dalai Lama’s talk in Buffalo, however, I let inertia and fear of change overcome me, and I still have not gone to any Buddhist center.  Well, inertia and fear will triumph no more because I am going on November 1st.